Originally from the Democratic Republic of Congo, Pathou fled his homeland in 2008 due to ongoing conflict and instability. For 12 years, Uganda was his refuge, a place of transition where he lived with his family. In the spring of 2020, amidst the chaos of the COVID-19 pandemic, his journey began to take shape in an unexpected way when they found themselves bound for Missoula, Montana, a place they had never heard of. The trip itself was surreal, with nearly empty flights and a quiet arrival in a city under lockdown. Yet, for Pathou, this was a sign of hope, a new beginning in a land of opportunity. “We waited so long for this opportunity,” he reflects. “When we finally got the call to come to America, it felt like a miracle.”

Arriving in Missoula during a global lockdown, Pathou recalls feeling like “We're really in the US, wow, it's not a dream.” The first days were a whirlwind of emotions—excitement, fear, and disbelief. “We were only ourselves in the house,” he remembers. Yet, the support from the International Rescue Committee (IRC) and Soft Landing Missoula made all the difference. “We are grateful for all the welcoming processes,” he shares.

Family is at the core of Pathou's journey. He is a devoted father, and two of his three children, born in the United States, represent a new generation with opportunities he never had. “I want them to have a better life,” he shares. “They are my motivation to work hard and succeed.” Pathou has three children, and he often talks about how proud he is of their progress. “My oldest is learning to express himself better every day, and now we have two more little ones who bring so much joy into our lives,” he beams.

As he settled into life in Missoula, Pathou faced the challenge of adapting to a new culture and language. “I spoke some English before coming, but it was different here,” he admits. “I had to learn how to communicate effectively.” Despite the hurdles, he embraced the opportunity to improve his skills. Pathou is currently studying Business Administration and Management Information Systems with a focus on cybersecurity at the University of Montana. “Education is key,” he emphasizes. “I want to secure a good job and make a positive impact on my community.” His commitment to learning and growth is evident in his words, as he dreams of a future where he can provide for his family and give back to the community that welcomed him.

In addition to his studies, Pathou serves as an associate delegate with the Refugee Congress, advocating for the rights and well-being of refugees in Missoula. “I want to amplify our voices,” he explains. “We know the challenges we face, and it's important to share our experiences with those in power.” His passion for advocacy shines through as he speaks about the importance of community support, but he also acknowledges the weight placed upon newcomers arriving in a city that looks and speaks differently than them. “We need to show that we can be productive members of society,” he says earnestly. “If we misbehave, it affects all of us and could close the doors for future refugees.”

When asked how he defines home, Pathou reflects thoughtfully. “I will define home as a place where you feel belonging, where you feel comfortable, where you feel welcomed, loved, and where you are given the opportunity to grow,” he shares. “I've had three homes in my life: my original home Congo, Uganda as my transitional home, and now Missoula, which I hope will be my final home.” His journey has been one of personal transformation, as he transitions from an unstable and hopeless life to one filled with hope and promise in Missoula. “I'm establishing myself here, getting to know the community, and I can see the changes happening around me,” he says. “I'm learning how to integrate and build my American life in Missoula.”

Pathou views life's challenges as opportunities for growth. “I'm not hoping to move again,” he states firmly. “Missoula is where I want to be. This is my home.” With faith and determination, Pathou is ready to build a future that honors his past while pursuing his dreams. He remains committed to sharing his story and the stories of others like him, ensuring their voices are heard and celebrated.